Lady Despina had nothing better to do with her time and she felt that she had to come up with something so as to pass time. That is why she had to find a way to deal with her boredom. She came across crush fetish and she used it to pass time like she had been meaning to. And she discovered a way to have fun she did not know about.
Lady Despina had had enough of this guy. She was having a date with him but he was too proud for her liking. She was not going to let him come out of the date thinking that he was the best thing to happen to mankind. So the mistress used her crushing fetish and she crushed the flowers he had brought her and told her he was not all that he thought he was and went ahead to tell him why.